Space is a precondition for growth. Our Circle joins to let go of what we no longer
need and allow transformation to occur. Where you are holding on to the old you are keeping out the new. We need each others help in the very important element of making space. We once held and tended the very things, people, situations and ideas that we are letting go of now.
At the top of every hour let us join our energy to make space for ourselves and one another for a joyful, peaceful transformation into our New Reality.
We are working on every element of The Circle for 2 weeks as it takes 2 weeks for a new practice to become a habit and for an old habit to be replaced with something new. It is important to keep this in your attention each day for the next 2 weeks as we join our energy to create these transitions as smoothly and joyfully as possible for one another.
You may notice that you use your sleep/dream time to process what you are letting go of and to remove any barriers to using that energy in a new and desired way
The transformation exercise in The Circle in the chapter on Making Space. Embody with your attention on what you are letting go of as well as how you are transforming that energy into the elements you need for your New Reality.
If you are working together as an “in person” group, you may want to do a lot of healing on each other for the next two weeks to help your transformation.
Remember, the other parts of The Circle are still at work! Remember what you are Consciously creating, Embody, do your Rituals and create new ones, notice Synchronicity and now create Space for Transformation. Use your blue Circle book to document your transition into your New Reality.
TOGETHER WE ARE STRONG! WE NEED EACH OTHERS ENERGY TO TRANSFORM!
Love,
Laura
AAAAAAH MARVELOUS!!! And so perfectly timed… I set out to do space-clearing today.
Joining healing to clear out the old and strengthen the new healthy parts of our lives.
I let go of a situation and a streak that was bringing me down and took that energy to have a productive satisfying day.
wHAT A GRAND JOB YOU ARE DOING LAURA! AND GORGEOUSLY ENOUGH, NOW I FEEL A PART OF IT TOO. GREAT DISCOUVERIES WERE HIDING BEHIND MY SORROWS AND HURT FEELINGS. AND I AM SO CURIOUS TO BECOME WHAT I MUST! iT IS A SORT OF MAKING UP WITH THE SELF i LEFT BEHIND MANY YEARS AGO! I AM AMAZED, I MUST SAY. PLEASE KEEP COUNTING ME ON!i’M IN. LOVE TO YOU ALL!
The idea of making space was on my mind as I thought to check for a new post today. Synchronicity?
May clearing away all that needs to go encourage the intentional transformation we desire.
Sincerely,
Leo
Dear Laura and group friends, I am really excited for this one, as I have been trying to remove things that are old to let in the new with not much success on my own. I know together I will make great progress as I have so far with everything else. I join everyone in the healing this week.. Out with the old and in with the new for us all!! TOGETHER WE ARE STRONG!! Love DJ xoxo
Dear Laura,
A year has passed since our boot camp in NYC just today, my birthday. It was my birthday gift to myself to be at the boot camp. Thank you for being part of my life! Love, Ana.
Happy Birthday Dear Ana
Mama Day, have been having intense dreams, some good. I wonder how a person can know, in love relationships, for example, when one is holding on to the old. Is there a point, or a way, that we can become clear? I’ve considered that embodiment helps to make things clear. Is there something more? I’m too quick to end, so I become careful, but then wonder if I’m holding on to something I’d be better off letting go … always an area lacking clarity for me. Thank you. XOOX
At this point in The Circle the idea is more to perceive than to act. If you are asking yourself the question it is not time for the action. Use all of the elements and go over all of the chapters up to this point, Making Space, and things will happen as they should.
I very much appreciate your response. Phat thanks!
How do you know if you’re throwing away too much stuff? I’m one of those people that has a really easy time getting rid of physical stuff…when is it too much?
Perhaps what you need to let go of is letting go of too much!
Hi Laura,
Although “making space” makes complete sense, this has been one of the most difficult parts for me. Not just at this moment but from the start when I began the Circle over a year ago.
How do you let go of “something” that you consciously are aware is sabotaging (or should I say “self-sabotaging”) where you wish to be but you can’t seem to get it out of your life? I have learned a lot about myself through “this” but know it’s time to move along – I just can’t seem to do it. And it’s not as if it’s bringing me any type of happiness so I know why I would be trying to hold onto it. How do I let go of something that seems to have such a grip?
That is why we have both The Circle (use the other elements to help) and the energy of the group (really link in to the unity of energy and allow it to work for you!). It is the hardest part of The Circle for me as well. It takes a real effort to let go of something/someone that we once valued. Knowing that the attachment is blocking something new, using that energy for transformation (something new) and being aware of the pain in between the old and the new is often enough to motivate a change!
Love,
Laura
A year ago I met someone at work and became deeply attracted to him. It was not the intense physical desire that drew me but more an intellectual and emotional chemistry. He never knew of my feelings because I knew of his unavailable status. Then the project was completed and I figured I would forget about this crush. I deeply desire to find a life mate and need to let this lingering crush go. It goes away and then comes back. Any ideas, tips, practical tools to finallyy rid myself of this memory? I know its just fantasy but I know I have not let it go to create the space for a real relationship.
The lingering crush will go away when you are in love again. It sounds like you are doing just what you should be doing this week and saying goodbye to some outdated but cherished people and dreams. Do all the things you need to do to find a new love. Ask friends to set you up, notice the people around you, smile and when you are ready it will happen.
Good Work!
Thanks Laura. I figured it was that. I’m working on my own inner roadblocks as well too. Ultimatley, my dream is to have children and I am open to doing it on my own.
Hi Laura, you make a lot of sense. Thank you so much for your guadiance! I am very grateful to have found the Circle.
Greetings Circle,
just had a wonderful Circle energy session..hope you all got the blessings and healing! Been noticing lots of stuff, things (as in stuff) as well as concepts to clear. Luckily, I rent out a booth at a mall and can (hopefully) clear out those things I’m no longer using. Ironically, I still feel a twinge inside when something sells, which means I might still be holding on a little. But in the end, it does feel good to let go and say goodbye. Quick question: is there such a thing as wanting what we desire too much? I’m trying to use the elements of old energy to create, but its not happening yet, so should I let that go too?
It is important to want your New Reality with as much of your being as you can. It is not good to fixate on it but part of embodiment is to get all of you on board to move forward towards your New Reality. As to your last question I think that you need to be open to your New Reality being created in a way other than your specific agenda. The “should I let go” questions always make me smile as letting go is so hard that we do it at a pace that cannot be dictated by conscious command! Embody, allow intuition to bring awareness and do the steps of The Circle and making space will happen
Love,
Laura
What you say is spot on: to be open to the modes of creatiion. I do get fixated a lot on the ‘how’ of things, specifically, how I think or perceive it ‘should’ go. And I totally hear ya about letting go questions. As if I can just say “I let go of being ___ now!” I wish! Thank you so much for your wisdom and insight and for sharing it with the world. We need it.
How do I know what I need to let go? How can I understand what is blocking my new reality?
If you are doing the first steps of The Circle at this point, Making Space, you don’t have to ‘know” what you are letting go of, although embodiment and synchronicity will usually reveal this to you, you need to simply be willing to notice what is moving away in your life and have the courage to allow for the space.Your New Reality will enter that space.
Love,
Laura
Question for Laura:
I’ve been doing the Circle, and everything was going smoothly. But then something unexpected happened-basically this person launched an unprovoked attack and humiliated me in front of a bunch of people. Then I found that a friend (someone else) had betrayed me, and had told this person stuff that he could use against me, and he did.
I am absolutely furious at these people. I’m so furious that I’m no longer embodying my new reality, or making space, or doing any of the things I should, since I’m so embroiled in this drama.
Is there any way I can use the Circle to deal with this, or should I just let this drama unfold until I can calm down?
Any information would be extremely helpful.
Thanks!!!!
Carla
First of all,nothing is outside of The Circle. This sounds like a real Making Space experience. Now you need to choose how to Make Space from these people and how to use this experience and it’s fallout for dynamic and positive and conscious change in yourself and your life.
Let the drama unfold, be aware of what part you choose to play in it, make choices about what you need to do to succeed even if those choices feel like triage in the moment and
USE THE ENERGY OF THE GROUP AT THE TOP OF EVERY HOUR TO EMBODY YOUR NEW REALITY AND ALLOW THE GROUP TO CLEAR THE REST!
Love,
Laura
Dear Group,
I just had an amazing insight while doing the “Anytime” exercise for Making Space in my workbook. I realized that one thing that I saw as a helpful piece of my old-reality was actually destructive!
I have a tendency to want to “help” people with things that they don’t like to do on their own; not big things, mostly menial tasks. I always felt that this was an act of love, but as I was embodying I realized, this itch to help is really an itch to fix, an itch to show him he can’t do without me. I followed the feeling and found that it was based in fear – fear that if I stop “fixing” other’s problems, they will see all the problems in me. Using all the wonderful energy of our Circle group, I transformed this energy of judgment and fear into the energy of compassion. Now when I see tasks I would previously have jumped in to “fix” I can feel compassion. I can see myself in the other person. Into the vacuum of the fear rushed the closeness and friendship. This change in energy is making me a much easier person to be around!
Love to all,
Anne
GO TEAM!
LOVE,
LAURA
Dear laura, for the past 3 months my life has been all about making space…after 15 years I was able to move to a new home (part of my reality tale)…almost like magic someone that wanted to rent my old house apeared (also part of my reality tale)…and all of this has forced me to let go of a ton of stuff that was almost drowning in. I come from a long line of what I could almost call hoarders, so it had always been dificult for me to let go of stuff…
My new home is clean, uncluttered and organized, and I feel so much lighter. Im hoping that I have borken the cycle and thus not pass it on to my daughters.
Even at work, after years and years at the same physical place, they recently asked me to move from one office to the next one…so I took it as an opportunity to “make some more space” and I got rid of soooo many useless, old and outdated files and documents; that I could move with only my computer, a small box and some books…it felt great.
Dear Laura, I cant thank you enough for all your teachings and guidance…my life is getting better and better every day…
PS. Zuri, every time I join energy, your name pops up in my head…so I am always working on your new reallity too…I hope this helps you get ther faster 🙂
Wow! Thank you Laura! Sending healing to you, it’s great to read your comments.
Welcome and sending healing right back.
I’m attempting to create space for a new meaningful relationship….it seems like a very complicated process, and I am overwhelmed with figuring out where to start.
Dealing with the feeling of being overwhelmed and finding a process, thought style, life style that doesn’t overwhelm might be a good place start, slowly, so you do not get overwhelmed!
Love,
Laura